Every day we are provoked and drawn into conflicts: some concern us personally, in others we are involved unknowingly. Sociologist Christina Carter explains how to protect herself from numerous dramas that unfold around. “You are incredibly cruel. I would never have done so with you ". One of the clients received such an unpleasant message, let's call her sarah, from her ex -husband. He was angry because their daughter did not invite him to a wedding. Instead of finding out relations with his d...